Are you being played? If you’re in a relationship with a man and something just doesn’t seem quite right, it probably isn’t.
Too many times we ignore our gut feeling in hopes of magically making a situation out to be something that it isn’t. If you’re uncertain about you and your “man’s” future, he’re a few surefire ways to let you know you need to dump him and take you stilettos to the nearest exit.
1. He has limited communication with you. You have a cell phone number and email and that’s it. If you’ve been seeing a man for a while and have never been to his home or your don’t know where he works, honey you are being duped. Men with something to hide purposely leave women in the dark. Check him out, and if your findings are unfavorable (i.e. he’s married, gay, or both). Cut him off.
2. He only calls or sees you at night. You’re a booty call boo. Nothing more nothing less. You will not be his woman because he does not respect you enough to be with you in position that is not horizontal.
3. He is verbally, mentally or physically abusive. Do I really need to go into detail about why you need to get away from this man? This is a guaranteed trip to the ER, the funeral home, or an episode of Snapped.
4. He pulls disappearing acts. It’s possible for a man to let you into his life–well part of it and then disappear without giving it a second thought. If he’s gone suddenly on weekends or nights and you can’t reach him by phone during times of emergency or such. Chances are he’s got another life or a wife.
5. He’s never invited you to his home. This one is synonymous with number 1. But know off the bat, if it’s been a few months since you’ve been dating nad he never brings you to his house, girl you need to let that go and don’t look back. He’s got something going on and whatever it is, you don’t want to be a part of it.
